All right, kids.
Little ultimatum to add to my previous post - I’m done sharing friends with that person. Like, it doesn’t work. I’m sick to death of the proximity by way of common friendships, and I sincerely hate to put everyone in this position but I really cannot stand it any other way. You choose me or you don’t, I don’t care, but if you feel like you’re closer to/have more in common with the other person - or simply like them more - I strongly encourage you to choose them. I get it. It’s fine. Just don’t lie and say you’ll cut off contact with the other person if you’re not prepared to, because if that’s the case, cut it off with me and I’ll consider it collateral damage of this whole sincerely fucked up situation and not take it personally.
Those who choose the other person need to defriend/unfollow/whatever me from everywhere we have contact ASAP. Those who choose me need to do that to the other person. I’m sick of feeling like I’m being spied on and having my actions reported back or talked about behind my back. Again, I know this is a completely unreasonable request but that is how much pain I’m in over this and that is the extent to which I am unable to deal. I fully encourage you to ditch me if it makes you mad that I’m making you choose, but guess what? None of this started with me, and I am sick of being helpless. I need some kind of control for fucking once. You ditch the other person or you’re gone.
Let me know.
